How do you get your girlfriend to break up with you?

my girlfriend has fallen way too hard way to fast for me saying those 3 words within the first 1 1/2 weeks. i can't break her heart after how the last guy dumped her so i need some other way to get out of this relationship. help???How do you get your girlfriend to break up with you?
You're going to break her heart either way. Just break up with her, but be nice about it. She'll get over it, it's not real love.How do you get your girlfriend to break up with you?
She should not have done that. Love takes time to build and she is immature. If you like her, then you need to talk to her without insulting her. Tell her that love is something that grows and instant love can be confused with physical attraction. Tell her that she needs to slow down so you two can get to know each other in a mature way that builds on itself.





However, if you don't like her, then just break up with her and explain that she can't say ';I love you'; after a week and a half. Tell her you feel she is confusing true love that builds over time with lust or physical attraction and just because someone says they love you, doesn't make it true. She sounds flaky.





I would not feel bad about breaking up with her no matter what her last boyfriend did. Honestly, though, you should tell her she scares men away with coming on too strong too fast. Most men like to be the ones to chase and ';I love you'; is too scary too fast. Most men want to say it first. Many women are too agressive these days and it's too scary for men.





I am a woman and I'd never be so overt. She needs to learn how to take things slowly and therefore more maturely. Good luck, but you should not feel bad to dump her, but explain why. You could keep dating her, but tell her to slow down and smell the roses.
You seem like a nice guy for not wanting to break her heart but honestly....it is better than trying to do something that will MAKE her not like you anymore because if she has already said that she loves you then it would take something drastic for her to break up with you. Thr right thing to do would be to just explain that you feel as if you should end the relationship because you see that she has far more feelings for you than you have for her and you dont want to be wasting her time or heart.
Ok why did you say ';I love you'; after less than two weeks then? I'm assuming you're no older than 15.. because that's something only a 15 year old boy would do. A MAN wouldn't do something that stupid. You got yourself into this predicament, you need to man up and get yourself out. Do not do something to get her to break up with you or take a different easy road, because if you are not straight up and honest with her, you're going to break her heart way worse. The best way is to just be HONEST. She may be upset, but dishonesty or tricks or lies are just going to hurt her more.
Don't cheat on her. That's the key. Don't hurt her more.





If you don't want to break up with her, slowly pull yourself away from her. Talk to her less, go hang out with your friends more, etc.





NEVER go and cheat on her, flirt with other girls or something like that. That's hurting her worse.





However, I don't see why you don't break up with her yourself. It's always best, even if it'll hurt her more. Just do it as fragile as you can.
Maybe you should have thought of that before you started dating her.


*sigh*


There is no shortcut to break up with a girl. You will have to do it yourself. If she's hurt from the last break-up it would hurt her even more if you tried to ';pull'; something. The quickest and best way to end a relationship is to tell her the truth.
Just make her feel dumb for saying she loves you so fast. Give her a list of things you think that love is and be like so you are all these things. She'll probably will feel real dumb, not say that again for awhile...maybe break up w/ you if your lucky. If she says yes then your just gonna have to yell ';Stage 5 clinger'; and run away frantically.
um. get her pregnant. ahahha jk jk. ok make her pay for evrything and i mean EVERYTHING. dont even lend her penny. dont let her touch you or anything be all prudish around her. hmmm.... o yea put on alot of axe and youll smell reallly badd so she wont want to be around you flirt with other girls and jsut be jack *** o and dont answer her calls and dont text or Im her. just be a total jack ***. if you ned jack *** lessons call my exboyfriend mike. hahah jk jk. my opinion is you should break up with her. obviously she is Wayyy to clingy. o yea when she says i love you dont answer. unless this girl is deaf blind or realll oblivious she willl get the message.


i hope i helped.


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Hey guy, sounds like you are a rebound case! I think you need to be totally honest with her...this is NOT about breaking her heart after the last guy, the damage is with him not with you...Be honest to her, you'll be doing her a favor and not to mention it's not fair to you to go on this way....Good luckkkk
call her at 3 in the morning every day. if she doesnt pick up, keep calling. act REALY clingy. call her and tell ehr everything you ate that day.





or...





flirt w/ every girl you can see. say every girl is hot in front of her. tell her she needs to lose weight and that she is ugly.
lol. i remember this trick. you don't want to break her so you make her hate her so she breaks up with you. i have a lot of guy friends...


okay here's a list of what girls hate.





1 if she tries to hold ur hand. take it away.


2 if people ask if your dating, say you arent.


3 Flirt with her friends. (their sure to tell her!)


4 roll ur eyes at her ideas.


5 make up lame excuses that don't even sound real.to ditch a date she planned.


6 hang with ur guy friends more and if she interrupts tell her your talking guy stuff.


7 whenever she tries to touch you pull away and tell her your not into anything like that.


8 if your desperate, then ruin ur reputation and cheat on her.


9 when she calls/texts tell her ur busy.


10 tell her she should get some exercise!!!


11 shrug when she ask whats up with you.


12 don't ask her anything about how she's doing or about her day.


13 be as arrogant as possible.


14 if she talks about her problems to you tell her you don't want to hear about her friken pms.


15 if she randomly sings then tell her to stop. that shes hurting your ears.





Hope this helps lol!!!!! good luck.. and if the girl reads this.... Sorry chick!
If she has fallin for u too fast then u shouldnt have to break up with her. Talk to her and man up! Tell her u want to take things slow. But if u really want to break up there is no easy way to do that without hurting her.
Don't be a dick. Break up with her face to face and take the blame. Say you're to selfish to be in a relationship and you just want to be free. She'll respect it and get over that quicker.
Be Honest. Tell her you are not in the same emotional place she is and that you are not ready to love or be loved.


Tell her you would be happy to introduce her to other guys.
you shouldn't have gotten in the relationship with her if you did not like her! but i think it is good that you do not want to hurt her feelings!
Act like a jerk and date another girl.... When she finds out she'll dump you.





Oh, but then you wanting her to dump you sort of makes you a jerk anyway..... so no acting there.
use da line every guy use... ';family problems';... or maybe the onez dumb guys uses ';i need to focus more on school';





that is like so wrong to do that.. i would hate if a guy do that to me... woahhhh
u can always cheat or just say u r moving to CANADA or just say im not reay





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so just start acting strange or be mean to one of her friends or gust say you wwwwwnnnnnaaaa be just friends
cheat on her or forget when its her birthday. or you could try flirting with other girls. or make her get jelous of another girl that will really tick her off just do something that is her most pet peve
Confront her that you think shes going too fast. If you still respect her even as a friend you should just tell her the truth. It will save her hurt in the long run or she'll never know what she does wrong in her relationships
Well.. First things first..





Do you like her back?





If you do.. Just tell her to slow down a bit.





And if you want to break up with her really.. Just tell her the truth also then.
Just kill her parents or something. Or show her this, and tell her this is how yo feel. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqXi8WmQ_鈥?/a>
You should just take her out to eat in your ugliest outfit and do not say anything. When she asks or speaks to you just grunt or shake your head. Do not be to rude.
just dont act as into her as you normally do, and dont see,text,call her much she should get the message. good luck.





dont cheat on her though thats horrible if she has been dumped badly before!
Cheat on her, flirt with other girls, don't treat her as important. Decline going out with her to stay at home and play WoW.
buy a cheap pair of earrings. Throw 1 of them away. Give her the other one and say ';You lost this in my bed';. Works every time!
Dont get out of it, have some balls and tell her she is moving to fast and youd like to slow it down.
ignore her, don't aswer calls or txts. don't show affection. you could act too clingy or just basically act like a dick until she gets fed up.
If she's falling in the first 1 1/2 weeks, she deserves to be broken up with. Text message breakup, that'll work, lol.
easy, don't call her, leave her and don't ask her out and never see her
DUDE GO FOR THE HOME RUN!!!!!!!!!! if she goes for it good for you, and if she doesn't she will break up with you