Sunday, November 21, 2010

How to break up with your girlfriend?

So I have a girlfriend with lots of emotional problems. She was a horrible girlfriend and cheated on my like no other. However, around the time I was going to leave she hit a million problems. Her mother left her family, she just had a big medical problem that has left her emotionaly hurt, and now she cant find a job. She got really clingy and attached when it was really just supposed to be a physicall relationship. How to I leave this girl, who has suicide issues, without causing to much pain?How to break up with your girlfriend?
contact a mental institution and then break-up w/ herHow to break up with your girlfriend?
you can't. you screwed yourself over by having just a physical relationship. you have to stay with her until her problems are solved now.
You will have to hang tough or you will never get out of the relationship. Just tell her it's not working out and you need some space. The suicide stuff is pure baloney used to control people. If she cheated, you should feel no guilt. Walk away and don't look back.
sit down on the couch and explain to her slowly. if she said she is going to do suicide then tell her to go right ahead, because then she will be leaving her loved ones behind and she will only be thinking of herself. you need to figure out how to say this or ask your bestest friend in the whole world that understands you very well.
No matter how to tell her, she is going to be upset. You need to be honest with her and tell her that you cannot continue the relationship and why. You don't live with her do you? Hopefully not. You need to just do it and don't let her use her problems to make you feel guilty and stay with her. It's going to cause her pain, but she needs to just get over it. You need to get out, and go on with your life.
don't leave her , she needs you more than ever now !

no wonder she's a mess, sounds like her family is too %26amp; I

am sure this has someting to do w/ it. Why not try to get her to a counselor %26amp; help her out instead of leaving her?

And how could you just use eachother for physical means %26amp; not care about eachother ? Be a caring person %26amp; be there for her.
ok i went through this too. Be honest with her that while you dont want to hurt her and you care about her, she hurt you too and you just cant be in it anymore. PLus, you can be around as a friend right?

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