Tuesday, November 16, 2010

How to BREAK up with your GIRLFRIEND?

We've been in a relationship for almost 2 years. I still care about her and want to remain friends, but i just think it's time to move on. How can I break up with her without hurting her feelings and remain friends with her?How to BREAK up with your GIRLFRIEND?
Okay, let's get something straight. There is NO good way to break up. Your not gonna do it right. No one does. You're going to hurt her feelings. She'll be sad. You either have to go out with her forever or else deal with this.



However a few pointers:



1. Break up with her in person. NOT OVER EMAIL, IM, THE PHONE, or TEXTING! In PERSON!!!!! It hurts more when it's not in person, she can go back and reread the breakup.



2. If you have your eye on someone else, give your ex a bit of time before rushing out and snogging this other girl. Not to say that you should wait for like months, just give it at least a few weeks until you display your feelings for this other girl publicly.



3. Say sorry, you enjoyed the time you had, but you need to move on. DON'T BE MEAN OR CALL HER RUDE NAMES. Not saying you would, but just in case.





If you still want to be friends, just say so, and don't force it. Give it a bit of time before you attempt friendship, she'll be hurting for awhile.



Good luck, I hope all goes well!How to BREAK up with your GIRLFRIEND?
That is not too easy, because if you remain friends she is going to think you still have something for her. Just break up, see other girls, when she has another boyfriend, give her a call and see what happens from there.
I'll take her(assuming she's over 18)
I would think you should tell her that you don't think the relationship is working out and tell her why. By the way, you have to tell her in person. And if she keeps bothering you then tell her you love her but it isn't working out.
obviously shes gonna get hurt if she likes you alot. tell her the truth. seriously. thats what every girl wants to hear. then give it some time for her to calm down before she becomes friends with you
Do her sister, and she'll break up with you!!!!
Take her to one of her favorite places (make sure it is a private place) sit down and say something like, ';I need to talk to you.'; etc. Then tell her that you want to break up with her but do not forget to add that you want to remain friends with her.

Good Luck!
hump her sister, momor, best friend job done
Not easy. But, here's how you do it:



1. You have to break up with her in person, and at her place. That way she doesn't have to leave and go home all upset.

2. You need to put all the blame on yourself and make it sound like a good thing for her. Say something like; I just need to concentrate on my schooling or career right now, and I just don't have the time to give you that I feel you deserve. Or try, I really care about you very much, and this pains me to say, but I don't think that we are meant to be together. I would like to set you free to find someone better.

3. You will not be friends right away. It will be too painful for both of you as you will most likely be seeing other people quite soon. So, leave her alone for a while. Give her some space.

4.When you two talk be kind and friendly too her. BUT, DO NOT fall back in to old patterns with her. (Don't say ';I love you, Don't talk about your relationship, Don't do anything that makes it seem like you have a romantic feeling towards her. Also, don't let her steer the conversation that way, gently re-direct.) It will only confuse her and make the rift between you two impossible to mend.

5. ASK her what's going on in her life...and this is the hard part...be interested and concerned for her dating life. Let her tell you about all the guys she's with now, no matter how much it will sting and burn and make you mad, just smile.

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