We've Been going out for a month and a half and she is just really boring and i dislike her friends, but i can't say that you know. I just need help.How to break up with your girlfriend without sounding mean.?
You know what, if she's really into you then it won't matter what you say she'll still be hurt. That's the inevitable truth about ending a relationship. But at the end of the day you still respect her and don't want to cause any more upset than necessary.
You're right, you don't want to tell her you find her boring and you CERTAINLY don't want to tell her you don't like her friends.
Make sure you do it when you're alone to avoid embarrassment. Face to face might be more uncomfortable for you but will show you do respect her. Be nice, but don't lie and don't make a big deal or an argument.
Just say you don't think its working- saying that means you're not blaming her or yourself, its just a natural fact. Tell her you're sorry if she seems upset, give her a hug and say you hope you can still be friends but understand if she doesn't want that.
Good luck. And remember, there's nothing you can do to avoid hurting her, its not your fault.How to break up with your girlfriend without sounding mean.?
juuuust tell her you no longer find her attractive
Just be like (Name), I think we should just be friends. This relationship is n't going the way I want it to be.
just tell her I am sorry I dont want to carry on our relationship its just not working out for me, but i would really like to stay friends if you think this is possible. There something like that, no excuses .
Tell her you want to talk about something important. sit down, be relax and tell her that you don't see a future for this relationship. put it nicely though, being nice isn't a sign of weakness like most guys think.
anyway, offer to be friends if you like, but remind her that it's up to her to decide. will make her feel good hopefully.
good luck :]
Don't break up with her, just tell her that she's kind boring...About her friends just get to know them more, and you'll be fine.
Truth can hurt but its better to be honest than to lie to her. Don't be afraid to tell her what's really wrong.
A break up is never nice. But just tell her the truth. It hurts less than a busted lie
my boyfriends dad was telling us last night that he used to break up with girls by pushing them onto other guys, and trying to set them up with his mates and stuff. there were some really funny stories!
Not breaking up or just not saying anything is meaner. The kindest thing to do is tell her or write it in a HANDWRITTEN NO EMAIL letter.
Say you enjoyed getting to know her but you want to date other people now and you respect her and wanted you to know where you stand.
just tell her you are not ready for a long term realtionship or that you just dont find her attractive anymore.
Just tell he that it's not working out. No matter what you do she will think you're a jerk. But it's only been a little over a month so she should get over it quickly. Good luck.
HEY DUDE RELAX...
be calm..don't behave differently.slowly start avoiding talking more to her.
and avoid her phone not often rarely ...then stop meeting her often..
show ur interest on other girl in front her..
if u follow this for an a week..
her friendship and hope ll reduce..
so that s time to avoid him often..
simple yaar..
but think before neglect someone...whoever may be...whether she s boy or girl....
Right, obvious one is to lie, make up some ****, that she probably wont beleive and you will leave her confused and hurt.
Best answer is the truth, and its not easy, but sometimes rejection is needed. If I know I can't be with someone because he doesnt like me there's nothing i can change about that. But because a guy has 'ust come out of a relationship' or he's messed up or anything that says its not you its me, makes us think we might still have a chance one day.
So you can't say she's boring. You can say you think she's a nice girl but she's not right for you, and you don't see it going anywhere and you wanted to be honest and end things before they went any further. Dont be too patronising as she might not think your all that either. Let her know where you stand if you dont want to be friends (good idea) don't give her false hope. It is very hard saying goodbye with no... ';i'll see you soon' or 'i'll call you'. Break up and leave.
good luck x
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