How do you NICELY break up with your girlfriend?

I have been going out with someone for only a week or so, but I can tell that it ain't going NOWHERE. She is a nice enough gal, but seriously, she couldn't get any duller. We have nothing to talk about between us, it feels awkward, and her looks aren't exactly flattering. But I want to be nice about breaking up with her, because I know that this relationship means a lot to her. Thanks everyone!How do you NICELY break up with your girlfriend?
Give her a piece of toast and say'; This is you';How do you NICELY break up with your girlfriend?
I am in sort of the same situation... My girlfriend and I have been going out for three weeks and I am having some doubts about our relationship... sex is great... she has a good personality... Theres just something missing... shes not the girl of my dreams... time to break up???

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no matter how nice ull be,it will still be hard,just make sure it s simple and short.';hey (name of girl),

listen,i was thinking maybe we should be friends because i can tell that we dont have anything to talk about and i think it would be best to be friends.
There is no NICE way. Everyone takes a breakup as a personal failure. The BEST way is to be honest and do it as soon as you feel it. You dont have to tell her that it's her ';unflattering'; looks, but do tell her that you dont see a future. If you know that already after only a week or so it must be true. That way you arent leading her on any longer and she has less time to possibly fall in love with you. You might be surprised that she may feel the same way. Good luck
Tell her that at this time you are too confused and immature to have a relationship with a girl and that you're sorry to have wasted her time. (Whether this is true or not, it will be easier on her because it puts the blame on you, not her.) Tell her that you will always be happy to be her friend. Don't blab about this conversation with your male friends.
Be honest....but use nicer words than you are dull...how about something along the lines of not having much in common. It's only been a week she can't be too attached already.
be honset tell da truth and dat u dnt fink itz goin anyway tell her shez a nice grl and all bt i dnt fink ur da 1 4 me or smefing lyk dat