My girlfriend becomes so bit chy and withdrawn....it gets really annoying becuase it lasts like a week to week and a half...she insults everyone especially me...at times i want to break up with her when she's like this but usually during the rest of the month she is fine and fun to be around....what should I do...Guys how do u deal with this?How do u put up with your girlfriend when she has her period?
Best way to deal with it? Ask your girlfriend.
Obviously, don't ask her while she's PMSing but rather, ask her when she is her usual self. Trust me, girls know they're not normal during that time of month and sadly, there isn't much they can do about it. However, most girls also know the best way for others to deal with it.
For example, I'd prefer it that people left me alone unless I make the first move. And if I do make contact, ignore all bitchiness/excessive eating/random crying. For me, that's the best way not to blow things out of proportion.
And have faith! Even thought it may not seem like it to you, not all girls PMS. The ones that do don't necessarily PMS every month. The ones that do PMS every month do not necessarily have it as bad every single time. It is very rare to have extreme PMS every single month. :)How do u put up with your girlfriend when she has her period?
lol buy her some midol and that is sorta heartless for you to say that, some women just act different why would you just want to break up for b/c of that..its childish, just tell her about it, or just give her that time alone menstrual cycles are horrible.
avoid her as much as possible or give her everything she wants.
give her lotsa chocolate and maybe just tell her it's hurting your relationship when she acts like that.
Well you love her, right? You just need to be sensitive and understand. Its hormones and if you were a girl, you would not want your boyfriend to be careless about it, would you?
whatever you do, don't ignore her
it makes her feel like crap
tell her how you fell about it and she will try to control her feelings around you
just remember it's really not the easiest thing to go through and sometimes you just can't hold in your emotions anymore
--and it's statistically proven that chocolate helps with the cramps and the emotions =)
midol, milk, and if that doesn't work, hang out with the guys for the whole period
Kolby's got it right. Just smile and nod at her, then run out the door as soon as you can.
Leash her up and put her back in her kennel until the storm passes.
try to kindly avoid talking to her. talk to her about it and see what she says. my girlfriend isn't like that so i wouldn't know exactly how to deal with it.
What's the problem? My woman just gives me head everyday when it's her time.
Seriously though, maybe she needs to be on the pill. It will seriously reduce the severity and length of those ';special moments.';
Either way, get her to a Gynecologist. He can be a man's best friend too.
Even though u asked for guys to help...trust me sum of them won't kno...During a womans period u should really cater to the needs..and stay close in a spacious way...During a period females like candy buy her sum candy...watch movies but dnt do n e thing physical..hormones was extremely high during dat time
Okay, first off, a week and a half isn't normal. Understand that she is feeling awful during that week. I know I am not a male, but you need to understand this side of it too. She is having NO fun during that week. Be senstive to her. She will appreciate it. Cramps are the worst thing. Offer a back rub once in a while. She's in pain and really does feel awful during that time.
I know you have to ';deal'; with it, but she is dealing with a whole lot more.
Amanda
Okay, listen...even though women have hormonal fluctuations that impact our demeanor, we are still in control over the manner in which we behave. She is using her menstrual cycle as an excuse to be bitchy. She's not the first to have a cycle and news flash, she won't be the last. The world can't stop revolving just because she's having some bloating and cramping. It's not a disease....she needs to get over it! You have to decide how long you'll continue to tolerate this mistreatment.
Let me give you some advice on what YOU should do. Get yourself a little bit of being a Gentleman. Once you decide to ';Grow Frickin' up!'; You'll see what a stupid thing, you've said. Have some respect to The Ladies! This younger Generation, is so out of touch! Once you get some respect? Let me know what you think about what you've said!
Have you talked to her about it? Although womens moods do fluctuate when their hormones are going crazy during that time of the month, that's no ecuse to be ugly to others or disrespectful. Let her know you don't find her pleasant to be around when she's like that and have even wondered if it would be better if you broke up, since she seems to spend nearly half the month behaving that way.
When she acts ugly toward you, call her on it. Tell her you understand she gets moody when she's on her period but that's no reason to %26lt;insert whatever she did or said%26gt; Make sure she knows you aren't going to just take it and that she can't use being a woman or PMS as an excuse to be a ******.
A menstrual cycle can be like getting kicked in the balls, which would put you in a bad mood too. Give her some amnesty, but seriously, she needs to look into some pain meds for the cramps. A hormonal hurricane is going on inside which only her OBGYN can help. Suggest she goes to the doc for assistance to make her period less traumatic on the both of you.
If you love her then putting up with a week of PMS and her period is a small sacrifice to make. Guys don't understand how horrible that time of the month can be. We don't want to feel that way. If you are willing to end a relationship because of this then you aren't really all that committed.
ima a gurl and let me tell you,however anoyed you get,you cant beat period pains so just give her space if it bothers you when shes like that....its going to happen every month so suck it up and wimp out tough guy!
just take a deep breath and deal with it for the week. talk to her about it, if it gets really bad. or just give her sweets and comfort her! maybe her insults will stop.
1) be patient....its not easy what shes going thru!
2)get her chocs and stuff she likes to eat
3)tell her how you feel about her behaviour when SHE IS NOT ON HER PERIOD!
4)its true that all women are different and have different extremes to their mood swings, however, theres no excuse for taking libs....
5)be level headed and fair when broaching the topic, women dont like to be spoken to regarding this topic it is ULTRA sensitive
6) remember that when she is in a mood, dont assume that its bcos of her period....it could be something someone else has done to get her mad....if you want to live a long life with a woman i'd keep that in mind !lol!
good luck!
lol...definitely avoid her as much as possible and give her lots of compliments about the great things about her you love..despite..the momentarily new personality....lol..she'll enjoy hearing sweet things when she feels like crap. good luck.
Woman go through alot of hormonal changes when they are on it.Try to be patient with her.You men should go through half of what woman go through and maybe you would understand.Maybe you shouldn't be around her as much when she has it.Try being patient,what are you going to do when you get married,woman go through emotional changes when they are pregnant as well.Try letting her know you understand it's that time of the month for her and you won't hold it against her.You know what kind of person she normally is,so I don't think a couple of days of understanding is going to kill you.The more understanding you show,the better she may act under the circumstances.
Let me explain something to you about your girlfriend. I can tell you that she is having a really bad hormonal disbalance. This is what happened to me and the doctor put me on some medication to get over it. I have been taking the medicine for over a month and I started seeing a difference. If you would only know how bad is the pain that she has to suffer every single month, you would be feeling sorry for her. For now what you can do is take her to the doctor and try to be extra-sweet when she is having her period...or just get you a girlfriend who doesn't have have hormonal disbalance. Good luck!
Just be a man and take the ****!
