How do you tell your girlfriend that you are actually gay and should I break up with her?

This is such a bad situation. I like this guy. I didn't even know he was gay. Last weekend we got drunk at my girlfriends house and we made out. I never did this since college. I like him and want to play around with him for a while, but I love my girlfriend and get married. What should I do? Should I tell her and see if she will accept that I have these fantasies or should I ignore what happened.



I feel terrible! How do you tell your girlfriend that you are actually gay and should I break up with her?
No, don't tell her. Just don't do it again and don't get so drunk as you can't control your urges. Only you know if you are gay or bi-curious or straight.

Think long and hard if you really want to marry this girl, or if you are being selfish. If you really loved her you wouldn't have done this, but everyone makes mistakes. Soul search.



Also ask why you say you are gay in the question, then say you arent in the additional details. Pick one or just admit you are bi and tell people.How do you tell your girlfriend that you are actually gay and should I break up with her?
Well if u just ignore it chances are its not gonna go away and its always going to be on your mind.



If you KNOW that your gf in the long run is not for you and you might cheat then please spare her cause at least she deserves the truth.



Is your gf someone that you can see the rest of your life with? If you say yes then consider your action....you will probably lose her forever...and even if she accepts you back...itll never be the same as before. If you can put your fantasies aside and have SELF CONTROL then i say dont lose a great woman over temptation.
Be completely honest with her and let her make the descision. Dont let anyone else tell you or her what to do, make your own minds up. If she loves you, she will understand but i think you need to reavaluate your fantasies. If you want to marry this girl, you should possibly be fantasising about her...
Speaking from experience, tell the girl. She has the right to decide to stay or go. If you withhold the information you are going to mess up her life and the lives of any children you have. It doesn't matter if you don't want a relationship with the guys you mess with; you are still cheating.
Okay, first choose a side. Are you gay, or do you love her? Are you bi?

If you love her, ignore what happened; if you are gay, break up with her (But that part's just common sense...).
Well, do you love your girlfriend as a friend, or a girlfriend? I wouldn't say anything if you love her, but if you are gay i would end it sooner than later.
Do the right thing and tell her.



It is selfish to lie about your sexual orientation and deceitful if you marry her.
ok well u gotta tell her your bisexual and if she doesnt accpet it find yourself other woman. or just date that guy u like lol.
make a video of you and your lover in bed and upload it on youtube and email her the link.
Go on Jerry Springer.
Do the girl a favor, and break up. Remain friends if you wish.
oh that's wrong dude, poor girl.

You needto tell her.
oh no...its a hollyoaks episode lol

you know, with john paul and craig....classic....just try not to repeat that one
From what you have said it would seem you are definitely bi-curious. You are not in a committed relationship or you would not have made out with this man. Being drunk only lowers your inhibitions and is no excuse for making out with him. I would suggest to you that while you still reconciling these issues the last thing you should be thinking of is marriage with the girlfriend. You need to speak to her and tell her of your bi-curiosity. Realistically speaking entering into a marriage, presumably exclusive of all others is not best in this situation.