What do you say when your best friend hints that they want to get w/you when their girlfriend breaks up w/them?

a friend of mine has hinted that he likes me and is always saying that his girlfriend is going to break up with him soon. i dont know what to tell him or say. i want him to realize that i dont want to be with him like that any time soon because i recently went through a bad break up. how do i tell him that?What do you say when your best friend hints that they want to get w/you when their girlfriend breaks up w/them?
tell him that you went through a bad breakup and dont want to date anyone. and try to avoid his flirting and dont let them break up because he wont EVER LeAVE YOU ALONE!!What do you say when your best friend hints that they want to get w/you when their girlfriend breaks up w/them?
you should be able to tell your friend anything and he should understand anything you say to him ...gently tell him your feelings about your break up and throw in there some where that you are not ready for dating any time soon he does not need to know that you are talking about him......but life is to short to to wait any longer then you need to let the cards fall where they my you might be surprised
Let him know that after every break up people need time to kind of analyze their lives. It's not right to go from one relationship to the next without some courtesy time in between.



Also, you don't want to become a rebound. It sounds like he's shopping for a back-up and not a serious relationship. Plus if he's your best friend, you don't want to complicate your friendship with some fake physical attraction. You're a strong person because you admit that you're not ready to be with him in that way. You just need to verbalize it to him.



Causally say, that you want to reassure yourself that you don't need a man and at this point you're not looking for anything serious. What ever you tell him doesn't have to be about him. If he's been your friend and he knows of the previous situation, he should understand. If he takes offense to it, he may only be interested in you physically. You pretty much have a gut feeling about which way to go, and this is just some reassurance.
Next time he brings it up you need to look him in the eye and say, ';BAD TIMING! I'm not going to do anything with you while you have a girlfriend and I you KNOW I went through a bad break-up recently. This is not the right time and if you have any respect for me then you'll understand that I just need you as a friend right now to help me through this.';



Or maybe not as harsh if he hasn't really done anything to piss you off. lol

But it is very immature of him to hit on you, his best friend, when you look at the circumstances. You just need to tell him what you really think and if he's your friend then he will be okay with it.
long story short u need ta tell him wuts wut striaght out. tell him dat u dont think its rite for him ta think dat u 2 r gunna get together rite afta she breaks up with him. jus tell him dat its too soon becuz ud b a rebound gurl for him n u dont wanna b dat. tell him dat ur still hurt n wen she does break with him itll hurt him too. tell him with all dat hurt u both gotta recover before makin ne harsh decisions like datin. tell him dat hes givin up on his gf alil too easy n dat u wanna c him happy n dat he shudnt give up with her like dat. jus tell him ta try n keep da relationship with her becuz every1 deserves ta have sum1 there. biggest thing of all tell him dat if he gives up da easy wen it comes ta her then wut makes u think dat hes not gunna give up easy like dat with u :-)



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Just be honest with him.