Monday, December 12, 2011

Is it ok to ask your girlfriend whether or not she hooked up with some1 else during our ';Break?';?

ok, so my girlfriend and i needed space from each other. we broke up for a month to give each other space, during the month we broke up, she went to hawaii on vacation with herself with a large group of strangers for this adventure camp, meaning people share tents and etc. we are now back together, but my whole thing is... i want to know whether or not she'd hook up with any1 over there while we were broken up cuz alot can happen in a month especially when you are on vacation. my main thing is how do i ask her?Is it ok to ask your girlfriend whether or not she hooked up with some1 else during our ';Break?';?
she did im sorry man i shouldnt have but she was all over me and you know one thing led to another....................Is it ok to ask your girlfriend whether or not she hooked up with some1 else during our ';Break?';?
What does it matter? You weren't in a relationship, i don't want to sound mean but its none of you're business.
you can always say you dont care either way but are curious to know.
Duh,some people interpet breaks as a time to make sure you want to be with each other and what better way than to see other people.The fact that you would even ask this questioon tells me that something might be going on.
None of your business honestly. You guys are starting from scratch. If you want it to last this time then I'd stay far, far, far away from that question. You guys were broken up so she can do whatever she pleased. To be frank I think it would be silly to think that she was ';faithful'; to you after you broke up and she spent a relaxing and exciting time in Hawaii. Unless you suspect she has contracted an STD, it's a no no to ask.
i know you want to know and everything but since you broke up she wouldnt have done anything wrong and once you find out it may change things and you will be jealous and everything it may be better not to know
It's ok as long as you act curious about it the best way would be to mention someone you dated and say something complaining about them then say have you been with anyone like that lately.
I would just come out and say.... Look, we have had our ups and downs but I truly love you and see myself being with you for a very long time and inform her that during our break I haven't been wit nobody and used that time apart to improve myself to become a better man for her. Now this is important.. If she looks anywhere but your eyes or if she cries then she have done something out of the way. Now if she cries and hug you then it's all good and also even though it was a break, both of you knew yall was going to get together and that you guys had to work on yourselves not buy having sex with other people but by realizing the problems you had and had, what role did you both play in your problems and how to make them better. Thats why you two went on a break and not was finished for good.

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