How to break up with your Girlfriend?

I am male seventeen years old. My girlfriend and I have been slipping a little bit lately. I tried to tell her how I feel and that maybe we should take a break from each other and just be friends. She would not allow it. I have not been spending as much time with her lately as I should but that is part of the problem we are starting to drift apart a little bit. She refuses to be friends with me and she says if i leave her she will never talk to me again nor willl she see me again. What do I do?! I feel like she is giving me an ultimatum.How to break up with your Girlfriend?
People who have dated rarely make good friends. On tv, maybe, but not in reality. She is adult enough to understand this limit and you need to be adult enough to accept it. Breaking up means just that. Break up. Don't play the game of taking a break either. Either you want to be with her or you don't. You don't get to go run around and do what you want while she is supposed to hang on in case you don't find better out there.



95% of teenaged relationships do not last into adulthood. Break up with her if that's what you want to do. That's the adult thing to do if you don't want the relationship any longer. Let her hate you, she would have the right. Don't push for friendship when all that is about is you not wanting to feel badly for ending it. Take the blame for ending it, it's what you want to do.



She has given you an ultimatum. End it or don't. Plain and simple. You can't have it all. you can't have her and the ability to date others. You can't stop her from having pain or blame for you when you end it. If she were to end it, she'd have to be adult enough to face all of these things. If you make her fall out of love with you, she'll hate you even more and this will be even harder to end.



Accept that if you break up with her, you lose her for good. Accept it and end it with her anyway if you want to go out with others. Be truthful to yourself about your wants. Being single and dating at age 17 isn't a bad thing, in fact, it's almost important. You are not a bad guy for wanting to go on and have freedom. You'd only be a bad guy if you expect others to behave the way you'd like them to in this situation. Don't expect friendship, don't exect things to be easy. It's the price you pay when in a relationship. Both females and males learn this hard lesson in life through their teen years. It's an important lesson to learn. Dating also helps you learn what you do and don't want in a relationship. Trust me, the moment you think you want one thing and date someoen with it, you might find you don't like it like you thought you would. How to break up with your Girlfriend?
If she can't respect your feelings enough to give you a break when you need it and understand that sometimes people drift apart then You should just end it completely because she is being selfish and onesided-this thing with never talking to you again or seeing you again is totally selfish and you definately don't need to be in a relationship when it is always about the other person. Just walk away. You'll save yourself a lot of time and trouble in the long run.
If you want to break up with her, than break up with her. Don't stay with her because she threatens you, as you are ultimately going to make yourself very unhappy! If she can't understand why you need a break, she may not be the right person for you. Sometimes a break is exactly what's needed, and if she can't see that.. well you have decide whether this girl is what you want. If you do break up with her, she will probably come around and be your friend once she gets over it.

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