DON'T BREAK UP WITH HER!
I know a guy who was in almost the same situation!
He was with her for about 1 1/2 years, he wanted to be a priest, but ended up not for her.
They ened up getting married, being in love for almost 20 years now, and having 3 kids, one of them being ME! :) Yup, the priest was my dad! :)
Stay with her dude! :)How to Break-up with your long-time girlfriend for 7 years without hurting her? how to tell her in a nice way?
you sound like a shallow jack ***. Dump her so she can go on to find a real man.
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Tell her that your a homosexual.
How could you not love her anymore? Dude, if that's how it is, you never loved her to begin with...Have you ever heard of lust? How about a major crush? You're pretty shallow if you ask me...Just be honest...Even if the truth gets your shallow *** kicked!
Juat say that you don't know if it is going to work out and that you want to just be friends!!! That's what I did
You can't do this and think it won't hurt her! OK? You should just tell her! Sorry! Talk to you later! My heart hurts for her! OH~~SHE IS GOING TO CRY AND CRY AND CRY! bye
There is no nice way. And you are going to hurt her anyway. Just tell her how you really feel. Be honest. Good luck.
whats ur problem.one min you love her and one min you dont.........i hate guys like u.....gawad kora gawad
Tell her that its just not working out for u you still love her but its not there anymore like it use to be so that way she can know that at least u gave her a reason and won't be as hurt.
Tell her that this is not going to work out. We got to break up.
Tell her ur Gay thats what i did to mi ex-boyfriend.
There is NO WAY you can do this without hurting her. But let her go, just let her move on, if she isn't what you want, I'm sure there is someone out there that will be more than happy to have her. Just don't waste her time any more.
Just tell her you need a change,
you can still be friends,
that you are considering the priesthood
(she should know that already, neh?)
and want some time to think about it.
Don't get into the 'I need someone sexier' part,
7 years with no sex, you probably do...
well, if your thinking about seminary, then women are a no-no! Can't have both, ya know! There is no easy way to tell your GF that you want to break up. She's gonna get hurt, no matter what!...Sexier, richer, prettier?? You don't sound like a man serious about becoming a priest! Men of God are supposed to take a vow of celibacy and poverty....You don't seem to want to do with out sex or money, so I suggest you just go to college and leave the priesthood to real men of God!
There is absolutely no way of doing this without hurting her.
Why lie when the truth is so unbelievable?
Tell her.
Deacons are allowed to marry.
Go to counseling.
If she is also religious, she will understand that you want to join the church. Personally, I think you should tell her, then ask her if she would have sex with you to try and change your mind. If you liked it, you may decide not to become a Priest, if you still become a Priest you are Baptised again I think plus you have confessional. Don't knock it until you try it.
be honest and tell her. you are stringing her all along and just tell her you don't love her the sameway anymore. you've grown apart and don't tell her you are looking for someone richer, prettier or sexier.
since you didn't have sex it will hurt less.
now go deal with it and log off your pc.
well maybe she is not the one but don't leave her high and dry, wat i mean is make sure you explain how you feel and don't ask out of no where can we be friend (duh) that is a true heart breaker be quick and painless not slow and harmful! ( best of luck)Oh yea make sure you understand how she would feel(imagine your her don't think too sadly ok)!
Your not wanting for her to get hurt does not mean that she will not be hurt, that's her choice of how she deals with it - a good news or bad news should never be sugar coated - should be reported as is - straight up is the way to go - be honest about your feelings for her and say it's not working out.
Let her catch you kissing some guy,
and she will break-up with you or
she want to try a threesome. It's a
win win solution
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