I think she might just be gay, and is not ready to fully committ to it.Is it ok to break up with your girlfriend because she is bi?
yess thats gross
If it really bothers you (and it seems to) then you should break up with her.
Dude if my gf was bi i think it would be amazing. You could check out girls together and talk about them. And the Threesomes would be amazing.
no because you could have a three some
yeah. im w/ u. i wouldnt date a bi guy (haha that rhymed!)
hope it all works out :)
UHH...yA!!! tHATS SO GROSS. I mean its one thing to cheat on u wit a guy but wit a girl is even more disturbing. I would not keep this chick in ur life. U can defenitely find a nicer, better, STRAIGHT gf. GOOD LUCK
yes theres nothing wrong with that reason. I understand ur in love with her but whats the point if u being with her if u cant accept the person she is. If u dont accept that part of her life then the relationship wont go too far.
break up with her if it really bothers you, it's not your fault that you're disgusted. i would be kinda disgusted because it's like you and her both like girls. so when you guys are on dates, you guys will both be checking out girls at the same time... lol that's kinda freaky.
Yes it's ok to break up. She should be sensitive to your feelings, not ';Why does it matter.'; If she's not there for you, I'd say move on. You don't want to be in a relationship when you're uncomfortable with it, especially if she doesn't care.
Good Luck, Though.
no bro dont do that you will get more sex if shes bi
yeah, if it's something you aren't comfortable with, I don't blame you.
Well I say you should brake up because YOUR a jerk and didn't even like her in the beginiing and expect her to do things she doesn't want to do. You make guys look bad.
i would try to get a threesome going. that would be awesome. and you could just do that, and everyone would be happy.
You have every right to feel uncomfortable because that is how you feel and noone can change that... Has she been with other people while she was with you? Whether it's a girl or a guy that is still cheating and you don't deserve that.
The fact that she hangs out with ex's is uncomfortable whether she has feelings for them or not it's just the fact that it is an ex.
about the oral thing? a LOT of girls don't like doing it but I know what you mean about if you love someone.. maybe shes not so in love :(
good luck
No, if you love her you should just think ';oh well she's been with girls, she is with me now'; you wouldn't not date a girl because you didn't like her male ex would you? She's with you now, it doesn't matter who she WAS with. She's right, why SHOULD it matter? Another thing, if she's not comfortable with oral thats okay.
yeah well if she doesnt make some changes that would make you happier or more compfortable then you every right to break up with her
Taking your gf's sexuality out of the equation, I think you have a fairly good grip on how you feel about what you need out of relationship. That said, your gf's sexual identity is not presenting a satisfying configuration for you. No matter if a person is straight, gay, bi or trans not every match is a good one. I have straight friends whose choices creep me out. It's not working for you. Leave the baggage at her door and move on.
she may have liked girls but that doesnt mean that you should break up with her, if u really care about her than talk to her first, even though she may have been with girls that doesnt mean that she doesnt want to be with you, just listen to what she has to say, if she loves you than you shouldnt worry, give her a reason to love the man that you are, show her what a man can really do for a woman, ya kno
break up with her!
Dude are you insane.You have the perfect opportunity to get a threesome with two hot chicks.Oral on a chick is alot different than oral on a guy.Tell her you are OK with her seeing other girls as long as you get to have fun with both of them once in a while.Be sweet and charming when you meet her girlfriend.Act like its no big deal to you.Do not act like a kid in a candy store.Just be casual.I know I was once in your position.It was the best.
well yeah if you feel uncomfortable. it doesnt seem as if you have a problem with bi people. Try staying as friends and if yoou change your mind. but be honest with her
Yes...that's sick.
I totally understand. If any of these gay/bi girls she's hanging out with are girls who she's dated or anything before, that's just like she's hanging out with an ex boyfriend! It's just odd. I think, if it really bothers you, you should bring it up to her. Even if you already have. Tell her that it bothers you that she won't do oral with you and WHY. I think you make great points, and if she continues doing this, and it really bothers you, maybe take a break from her for a little while. You can always go back if you both realize you truly love each other.
FORGET about all the sexual preferences here , man. They make little difference. What's important is: Does she love YOU? Will she stay devoted to YOU? There are plenty of couples male /bi female where the girl stays faithful to the guy- and if he's lucky he gets two women in bed at the same time! But trust in her faithfulness is numero uno. If she's gonna run off with a woman ....... forget it.
well the oral thing... a guy is honestly better than going down on a girl... i prefer guy than to girl... the pro in a bi relationship is the threesums... as long as there are no strings attached to the other girl by ur girlfriend... maybe, she loves you, but is really deep down more into girls sexually... sex isn't everything in a relationship, but it still is a big role in one... if u can't hadle it then, the best thing to do is break up with her because ur only gona hurt yourself in the end... good luck hun... =)
i wouldnt break up wit my bf if he were bi but thats just me i think that its fine peole cant help the way they feel weather its with the same sex or not
If it is something you can not handle then you need to end it.
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Yes, it's ok. It obviously bothers you and she doesn't understand that. You shouldn't be with someone you feel uncomfortable with.
if u really love her, then u wudnt have a problem with her being bi. and plus u need 2 make SURE u know shes bi before u do anthing. if u love her that much, as u say, then u need to look past her differences and continue to love her, that's what love is. i wudnt do anything unless shes cheated on u or sumthing. and actually, some people think oral is really gross, boy or girl. maybe she just thinks its gross cuz shes never done it before. ask her WHY its gross. im not gonna tell u to break up with her or not- thats what u decide. but thats just my opinion
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