My question would be how do go about breaking up with your girlfriend if she lives with you?

my girlfriend has been living with me a little over 3 years and it not getting any better its because she is an alcoholic thats agressive and violent but i do love her but i know in my heart we are no match any more she hurt me with the words that came out of her mouth she has her mom to go to but but her mom dont care about her she really has no one in reality she doesent taking me serious when i say we need to seperate and i made it clear to her many times i think cause i let it slide many times she thinks it will just blow over and its my fault for not sticking up right away but i cant seem to see me kicking her out cause im not that mean i would like to seperate for a while but dont know how to do it a way thats not offensive and hurtful so i ask for some advise so that i can learn grow more confident.My question would be how do go about breaking up with your girlfriend if she lives with you?
Okay what you need to do is sit her down and talk to her, remind her of how your relationship has worsened since. Do it in a calm matter, well really both you and I know that wont work. What you really need to do is wait for her crazy self to go phsyco when drunk and just tell her to leave put her stuff outside and leave her out there until she has come to realize she has nowhere to go, but with you. Do not take her back, unless you see a different person in her years later. Good luck!!!My question would be how do go about breaking up with your girlfriend if she lives with you?
Well what I would do since she is violent is have a friend that she is ashamed to act that way in front of to be at the house but maybe outside or something.. while she isnt home pack her things up for her nicely and place them in the bedroom... Once she arrives tell her she needs to sit down with you and have a talk.. do not raise your voice but be stern with your words... tell her once again that the living situation that you have together is not healthy and that you desperately need your time apart from her because it is not fair to the either of you to be together when one or the other has mixed emotions and tel her she needs to respect that.. tell her you care for her and her well being but the relationship needs a break... whether or not you want to work things out you might tell her after your apart you are willing to give the relationship another shot but do not want to be residing in a home together..... if she acts crazy and doesnt understand then there is nothing more you can do but tell her you have no problem helping her move out and make sure she is safe and settled somewhere and if she declines then thats her business... in the end you were the bigger man and you did the right thing
Just tell her straight up how you feel and if she doesn't change then tell her you don't want to be with her. Its better to tell her asap so you wont keep wasting your time with her. Don't worry she'll get over it.
You might want to consider Al-Anon. It's good for those who are around alcoholics. Therapy might be good too.



You don't have to worry about hurting her feelings...she's aggressive and violent, that's what you should worry about! Make plans to move somewhere and just do it. If she lives with you, tell her she has one week to move, then don't be around (stay with a friend or something) then change the locks if she doesn't move, pack up her stuff and put it outside.



If she makes a scene when you do this, call the cops. I had to once, and did this exact thing when he wouldn't just get his stuff and leave (I changed the locks). If she gets arrested, then that might help her 'hit her bottom' and she might get the help she needs. Then change your phone number and email.



It ain't your job to try to save crazy women. It's your job to have a good life. And it's the least hurtful thing to end it fast...to drag it out sends a mixed message.



And if you keep staying in this relationship, then you might just like crazy women. So, get out!