Would you break up with your girlfriend over this?

My Conscience is really killing me because my girlfriends son is making my life hell. I have tried everything under the sun to be buddy's with this guy and it seems he is bent on hate for me. About 7 months ago i resigned from my job as a manager ( Great job ) of a retail store, to be closer to my girlfriend because she basicly said she couldnt do the long distance thing anymore, and wanted to be with me. Her parents had recently brought her a nice house, so the thought of moving to my state was slim, so i moved in with her Sep 09. She has 2 sons, 13 and 15. The 13 year old is very intelligent, in all gifted classes with a intelligence level of probably a 18 year old. But he has alot of issues....He is extremely antisocial, has 0 friends, even teachers have talked to my girlfriend wondering why he is so antisocial with other kids. To make matters worse, well not worse for being this, Recently we found a lot of gay pornography on his laptop, and looked at the history of his internet use to find he daily visits multibile gay porn sites, man on man orgy stuff. Then about a week later, im on the family destop checking my email, and did a history search, and found that he had been searching '; Being raped by stepdad'; '; My stepfather raped me'; Things like this over the google search engine, and i called my girlfriend into the room, she calls him into the room. I confront him over this , he tells her it's a joke, and my girlfriend believes him. She thinks nothing of it, shes also in denial about him being gay, because he told her he was just looking at gay sites because he was trying to learn how to masterbate. This kid treats me like garbage, he ignores me all day, never speaks to me. The other day he came in from school and knocked on the door because he was locked out, i open the door for him and say '; Hello how are you'; , he just walked past me without speaking. He never talks to me unless i say something to him. Sometimes my girlfriend calls the house line to speak to me and he will lie and say he doesnt know where iam, once he did it when i was in the same room. Few weeks ago my tires misteriously lost all the air in 2 of em, inside the garage! And every time i talk to my girlfriend about this, she tells me she does not see a problem, tells me iam over reacting??? Yet whenever he is mad at me she takes his side every time. Once after i said something he said to me '; What a dumb thing for you to say'; I freaked out, and he said he said it because he didnt know what i was talking about...And she took his side, saying '; he was just confused, thats why he said what you said was dumb';. She doesnt see a problem with him ignoring me, and has never talked to him about why he does it. Her other son has called me a ****** once, and gave me the finger another time, both times she only yelled at him. So iam here, unemployed and depressed , thinking about leaving , would you leave? being in my situation?Would you break up with your girlfriend over this?
Ohh yes i would leave without thinking twice thats her problem once

yur gone and her son turns out gay then thats on her! and maybe

shell realize yur right and come back to you ?Would you break up with your girlfriend over this?
Seeing how you are turning to yahoo, shows that you are totally at a loss for people to talk to around you. I would leave. Honestly, she is just too busy being a mom right now, so maybe you should try again later, or maybe you'll find you're better off with out her.
Ya in the futrue she will only take his side.
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Dont let people on here make choices for you.

Thats really all i can say.

Talk to someone you trust.
yes shes a slut
dude i would for sure leave, that is insane, hes gonna get the cops called on u for the rape ****
Well im 15 and i really don't like my moms boyfriend so i know how they feel, and its just a phase. my sister is 13 and she absolutely despises my moms boyfriend. so don't leave just let some time pass and see how things go but if you love her then i wouldn't leave. but i hope things work out for you guys!(:
I am sorry you have to go through this situation. It must be really hard and painful. It's true, they are teenagers, and they probably hate you because they think you're stealing their mom from them. But I think their mother should have a serious talk with them if she really loves you and ask them to respect you at least (they don't have to love you, but still, at least give you a chance...)



And for what it's worth, I think the 13 year old has a serious problem, and his mom is in denial. He should get help and soon.



Try and talk to her, and tell her that you want to help, but there is a limit to what you can take.



Hope this helps. Hopefully the situation will get better.

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sorry but you deserve wayyy better than she thinks if she loved you she would try and work thibgs owt instead shes sitting there doing nothing why dont you move on and find someone who doesnt ahve kids its hasslefree and no worries why are you stressing get out there enjoy your life =)
I would definitely leave, you're taking **** from a 13 year old or whatever, i dont care how smart he is, he's just being a little a hole. you gave up your job for this? good job? in this economy?
Antisocial is a big concern, he should stop the school work a bit and start watching more tv, playing video games so he has something to relate to other kids in his school. Not saying he should stop studying but c's and b's are good enough. The him hating you issue, i kinda do that to my dad. I dislike him a bit cause of how he treated me when he used to get drunk when i was a little kid bout 8 years old and scream and hit me ( not abuse ). Im 16 now. I don't think there's much you can do for him to start liking you but get a doctor ( w.e u call it )

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