express your feelings to her. the worst way to break up with someone is to ignore them, or to shut them out, or cheat on them. that hurts people.What is the best words the break up with your girlfriend?
Think about what not into her means. If you are attracted to someone else, be honest with yourself about it, and let her know in a subtle way. If you are not attracted to someone else, but you realize it's too hard for you to be with her, find out what it is that makes you feel that way and let her know. Honesty is harsh, but the best medicine for something like a break up.
The best thing is to be honest with her. Sure it'll hurt and she may go nuts, but in the long run the truth is the better option. If you want to avoid her going off go to public place, but somewhere quiet in that place...somewhere like a cafe or coffee shop is best. Remember be straight up and truthful with her.
for 4 years your love for each other didn't bloom?
';I don't know why suddenly I felt like Im not into her anymore';
Sounds like you just loved her with your mind, not with your heart.
Be honest with her, and tell what you feel. She will be hurt, but that will make her stronger in life.
Well, make sure she isn't sad when you tell her... Also, try to cheer her up and tell her that you are friends and invite her somewhere with your other friends... What to tell her? Depends if you've told her you love her, depends what you think is wrong with her... How old are you? If you are younger tell her that you are too young and that you can still be friends... Or, you could just give it to her straight. Tell her that you don't really want to be with her... Done XD. Or just start cursing her like hell and she will leave you lol.
Well first off you yourself need to discover why you don't feel like being with her anymore. Your not into her after 4 years?? idk but when you REALLY realize why you don't want to be with her anymore and you KNOW FOR A FACT. Then go ahead and do it but until then don't because its not very nice to break someone's heart if someday you'll want her back. But if you do find that it is over. sit her down IN PERSON and just tell her how you feel and let her know you would still like to keep in touch with her, unless you don't. then just tell her you don't feel that you have anything in common anymore and you'd like to go your seperate ways. If she cries which she probably will just comfort her and tell her that its not good to be in a relationship with someone when its not making both people happy and you just want to see other people. Just let her down gently, don't be a jerk! :) good luck hun.
well me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years to. and i would hope if for whatever reason he isn't into me he lets me know how he feels with his own words... but any way you should really try to rekendal your feelings for her, because truth is, its hard to find someone that is worth 4 years of your life.. when i was going though a phase like this with my boyfriend i broke up with him and 6 months later i was begging for him back, because i thought there was better out there, but i was to blind at the time to see that i already had the best. so to answer your question don't break up with her she at least deserves a second chances. everyone does. good luck
there are NO best words for a break up - Be honest and sensitive - they worst thing u can do is to lead her on and/or ignore her. ok maybe use words like: I don't mean to hurt you, but it would be wrong to continue our relationship when my feelings for you are no longer there. I feel we need to go our seperate ways. there's never any easy way to break up.
Im a girl and if a boy was to break up with me i would want them to say something like,' im sorry but your too good for me and want to move on',im really sorry but i don't think were meant together.
4 years is long mate. Why don't you think about it first? You guys have invested lots of time in your relationship. Think what's going wrong now? Why are you feeling like 'you're not into her anymore'; well, that's kinda harsh. Don't give up on something you're not ready to live without.
THINK.
TALK.
THINK AGAIN.
TALK AGAIN.
THEN DECIDE. :))
Goodluck!
P.S - Don't cheat on her. Be honest with her.
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